Marvin Wayne Roemer was born on October 24, 1949, in Denver, Colorado, to James Michael Roemer and Mary Jane (Moore) Roemer. He was the beloved middle child, growing up alongside his older sister Shirley and younger brother Michael (Mick). In 1961, Marv and his family made their home in Arvada, Colorado, a place that would shape many of his most cherished memories. He attended North Arvada Middle School and Arvada High School, graduating in 1967.

It was during his high school years that Marv met the love of his life, Cynthia Coyne. Their connection was immediate and enduring, and they were married on October 10, 1968. Together, they built a life grounded in love, hard work, and devotion to family. They welcomed their first son, Patrick, on May 24, 1969, followed by their son Michael on December 8, 1971, and their daughter Jodie on November 19, 1975. Marv was immensely proud of his children and treasured being a husband and father above all else.

Marv dedicated 30 years of service to the Jefferson County School District. He began his career on the concrete crew and, through dedication and integrity, rose to become Supervisor of Maintenance for the district. Along the way, he formed lifelong friendships and earned deep respect for his work ethic, leadership, and kindness.

Outside of work, Marv’s greatest joy was his family. He never missed an opportunity to watch his children and grandchildren participate in activities and events, always cheering them on with quiet pride. He loved trips to Lake McConaughy, watching baseball, sharing meals, and simply being surrounded by the people he loved. One of the many gifts Marv passed down was his love of cooking—patiently teaching his children and grandchildren, creating memories that will live on in every shared recipe and family gathering.

Marv was preceded in death by his parents, James and Mary Jane Roemer, and his sister Shirley. Marv is survived by his devoted wife Cynthia; his son Patrick (Natalie): grandchildren Savannah, Courtney (Kyle) Breckenfelder and Ryne Roemer; great-granddaughter Gwen Breckenfelder; his son Michael and grandchildren James and Renee; and his daughter Jodie (Robert) Phillips, along with grandsons Nicolas, Andrew, and Cian and Marv's brother Mick (Cher) Roemer.

Marv never met a stranger in his life. To him, everyone was simply a friend he hadn’t gotten to know yet. His warmth and easy smile made people feel instantly welcome, and before long, they were part of his world. Whether you had known him for decades or had just met him that day, Marv had a way of making you feel seen, valued, and at home. His table was the heart of that welcome. There was always room for one more chair, one more plate, one more story. Family, friends, neighbors, and even unexpected guests were greeted the same way—with open arms, a full meal, and genuine conversation. Marv believed that sharing food was sharing love, and countless memories were made around that table, filled with laughter, stories, and the comfort of togetherness.

For some, that welcome meant even more. There were people who felt his kindness so deeply that they became family—not by blood, but by love. Through shared meals, long conversations, and years of showing up for one another, those bonds grew strong and lasting. Marv never drew lines around who belonged; if you were in his life, you were family. To be welcomed by Marv was to be accepted fully and without condition. His generosity wasn’t loud or showy—it was steady, sincere, and constant. He gave his time freely, listened without judgment, and made people feel like they truly belonged. Long after the meal ended and the chairs were pushed back, the warmth of his kindness stayed with you.

That legacy lives on in every gathering, every shared meal, and every open door left unlocked for someone in need. Marv taught us that family isn’t just who you’re born to—it’s everyone you choose to love. And in his presence, everyone belonged. Marv will be remembered for his steady presence, his generous heart, and his unwavering love for his family. His legacy lives on through the many lives he touched, the lessons he taught, and the love he leaves behind.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to National Jewish Health in Marvin's name.